We understand that it may be hard to bring up these sensitive issues with loved
ones, and that you may be cautious to do so. Rest assured it is crucial that
you talk to the friend you are concerned about, but keep in mind that you
should avoid doing the following:
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Don't try to cheer the person up, or tell them to snap out of it.
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Don't assume the situation will take care of itself.
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Don't be sworn to secrecy.
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Don't argue or debate moral issues.
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Don't risk your personal safety. Just leave, and then call the police.
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Remember that the important thing is that you tell your friend that you care
about them and are concerned. Any effort to make a connection with your friend
will be appreciated - if not now, then surely later on.
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